Cheating Wife
f you suspect that your partner is cheating on you, the person you have given so much of yourself to, the person you have loved so unselfishly and sacrificed so much for, the person you stood by when anyone else would have left, then this could be the most important message you will ever read.
Let me explain.
* You do not need to spend another night lying awake in bed waiting for them to come home, unable to escape the sickening thoughts of where your lover could be, who they could be with and what intimate things they might be doing to each other.
* You do not need to go weeks on end without making love or endure the gut-wrenching pain of longing for them to “touch you like they used to”, while they seem to do everything in their power to hurt and ignore you.
* You do not need to put up with their endless lies and excuses or endure the vicious emotional abuse that makes you feel like you never meant a damn thing to them.
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Cheating Wife
Monday, July 02, 2007
Monday, May 14, 2007
Signs Of A Cheating Wife
Cheating Wife
They always leave several signs, here's a really good article, 58 Clues Your Partner is Having an Affair by Sydney Guishard
Main article.
Here are some signs that can tip you off that you have a cheating husband or cheating wife. Feel free to forward this list to anyone who might be interested. I just ask that you don't change anything and include the author box.
Signs of a Cheating Spouse:
1) He just got a new cell phone but surprisingly the bill gets sent to his office address.
2) Your partner suddenly starts taking more business trips that last longer.
3) He no longer wants the baby seat in his car.
4) You can't get your spouse to talk to you anymore.
5) Sex life? You hardly have sex any more.
6) Wow! Your sex life has suddenly taken off.
7) Your partner is paying way too much attention to you.
8) Your partner is ignoring you.
9) Your spouse is neglecting everyday chores and tasks.
10) He starts paying a lot of attention to a clean car. Everything is spotless inside and out.
11) You find you have to readjust the passenger seat every time you get in the car.
12) She seems to be working late at the office more than usual.
13) He has condoms even though you're on the birth control pill. She takes the pill even though you've had a vasectomy.
14) She just got a new male friend but she says not to worry because he's gay or recently engaged.
15) Your partner is always running late.
16) When your partner comes home his hair is wet.
17) She always seems to be forgetting to wear her wedding ring.
18) He has suddenly taken up jogging when he normally only runs to the fridge.
19) You start smelling alcohol on her breath even though she came "straight home from work".
20) Your Spidey senses are tingling. You just get the feeling that something is going on with your spouse. Your intuition or gut feeling is talking to you.
21) He starts to buy new clothes and starts looking REALLY, REALLY good.
22) She gets a new email address and doesn't tell you about it.
23) She races you to the mail box to get the phone bill first.
24) You notice charges on your credit card statement that make no sense.
25) Your spouse seems more secretive. They are definitely hiding something.
26) You can't get your partner to fight anymore even when you try really hard to make him or her mad.
27) Your partner doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.
28) He/She goes to another room to make private phone calls.
29) Your partner's friends seem to be uncomfortable around you -- like they know something.
30) You start getting an unusual number of telephone hang-ups.
31) Your partner encourages you to take a vacation alone.
32) Your spouse starts getting defensive when you ask if something is going on.
33) Your partner starts wearing new cologne or perfume.
34) You notice lipstick on his collar, or worse - his underwear!
35) She deletes the phone log on her cell phone at least 5 times a day.
36) He turns off his cell phone when you are together like he's afraid to take a call beside you.
37) She becomes paranoid and uncomfortable even when you ask the most innocent questions.
38) Your partner spends many hours on the computer or phone after you've gone to bed.
39) He makes a brand new CD to play in the car.
40) Your partner has set up special security on the computer that you can't access.
41) The internet browser history is deleted whenever you go to use a shared computer.
42) Your partner is spending less and less time with you.
43) She never seems to be at her desk when you call.
44) Use your nose. Your partner smells differently when they leave the house in the morning compared to when they come home in the evening. A different cologne or soap smell.
45) Your spouse suddenly becomes interested in new, different types of music.
46) Your partner starts talking differently, using different phrases and sayings and knowing more on a new subject.
47) Your spouse has unusual scratches or bruises on their neck, back or arms and you know the cat's not responsible.
48) Your partner has his/her cell phone locked down better than Fort Knox.
49) He never returns your calls when he's out.
50) She has more of a "glow" about her.
51) Your spouse's underwear never makes it to the laundry or it appears to be rinsed before getting to the laundry hamper.
52) He heads to the shower or brushes his teeth as soon as he walks in the door.
53) He starts buying new underwear.
54) She buys new underwear and always wears matching bras and panties.
55) He starts doing his own laundry.
56) Your spouse starts receiving small unexplained gifts.
57) She tells you she's trying a Brazilian wax.
58) He learns how to remove hair. He now clips his nose hairs, trims his pubic hair and tweezes the hair growing out of his ears.
About the Author
Sydney Guishard is a Relationship coach and has helped hundreds of couples improve their marriage. Is your marriage headed to divorce? Take the Free Relationship Assessment http://www.themarriagerescue.com/quiz
Cheating Wife
They always leave several signs, here's a really good article, 58 Clues Your Partner is Having an Affair by Sydney Guishard
Main article.
Here are some signs that can tip you off that you have a cheating husband or cheating wife. Feel free to forward this list to anyone who might be interested. I just ask that you don't change anything and include the author box.
Signs of a Cheating Spouse:
1) He just got a new cell phone but surprisingly the bill gets sent to his office address.
2) Your partner suddenly starts taking more business trips that last longer.
3) He no longer wants the baby seat in his car.
4) You can't get your spouse to talk to you anymore.
5) Sex life? You hardly have sex any more.
6) Wow! Your sex life has suddenly taken off.
7) Your partner is paying way too much attention to you.
8) Your partner is ignoring you.
9) Your spouse is neglecting everyday chores and tasks.
10) He starts paying a lot of attention to a clean car. Everything is spotless inside and out.
11) You find you have to readjust the passenger seat every time you get in the car.
12) She seems to be working late at the office more than usual.
13) He has condoms even though you're on the birth control pill. She takes the pill even though you've had a vasectomy.
14) She just got a new male friend but she says not to worry because he's gay or recently engaged.
15) Your partner is always running late.
16) When your partner comes home his hair is wet.
17) She always seems to be forgetting to wear her wedding ring.
18) He has suddenly taken up jogging when he normally only runs to the fridge.
19) You start smelling alcohol on her breath even though she came "straight home from work".
20) Your Spidey senses are tingling. You just get the feeling that something is going on with your spouse. Your intuition or gut feeling is talking to you.
21) He starts to buy new clothes and starts looking REALLY, REALLY good.
22) She gets a new email address and doesn't tell you about it.
23) She races you to the mail box to get the phone bill first.
24) You notice charges on your credit card statement that make no sense.
25) Your spouse seems more secretive. They are definitely hiding something.
26) You can't get your partner to fight anymore even when you try really hard to make him or her mad.
27) Your partner doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.
28) He/She goes to another room to make private phone calls.
29) Your partner's friends seem to be uncomfortable around you -- like they know something.
30) You start getting an unusual number of telephone hang-ups.
31) Your partner encourages you to take a vacation alone.
32) Your spouse starts getting defensive when you ask if something is going on.
33) Your partner starts wearing new cologne or perfume.
34) You notice lipstick on his collar, or worse - his underwear!
35) She deletes the phone log on her cell phone at least 5 times a day.
36) He turns off his cell phone when you are together like he's afraid to take a call beside you.
37) She becomes paranoid and uncomfortable even when you ask the most innocent questions.
38) Your partner spends many hours on the computer or phone after you've gone to bed.
39) He makes a brand new CD to play in the car.
40) Your partner has set up special security on the computer that you can't access.
41) The internet browser history is deleted whenever you go to use a shared computer.
42) Your partner is spending less and less time with you.
43) She never seems to be at her desk when you call.
44) Use your nose. Your partner smells differently when they leave the house in the morning compared to when they come home in the evening. A different cologne or soap smell.
45) Your spouse suddenly becomes interested in new, different types of music.
46) Your partner starts talking differently, using different phrases and sayings and knowing more on a new subject.
47) Your spouse has unusual scratches or bruises on their neck, back or arms and you know the cat's not responsible.
48) Your partner has his/her cell phone locked down better than Fort Knox.
49) He never returns your calls when he's out.
50) She has more of a "glow" about her.
51) Your spouse's underwear never makes it to the laundry or it appears to be rinsed before getting to the laundry hamper.
52) He heads to the shower or brushes his teeth as soon as he walks in the door.
53) He starts buying new underwear.
54) She buys new underwear and always wears matching bras and panties.
55) He starts doing his own laundry.
56) Your spouse starts receiving small unexplained gifts.
57) She tells you she's trying a Brazilian wax.
58) He learns how to remove hair. He now clips his nose hairs, trims his pubic hair and tweezes the hair growing out of his ears.
About the Author
Sydney Guishard is a Relationship coach and has helped hundreds of couples improve their marriage. Is your marriage headed to divorce? Take the Free Relationship Assessment http://www.themarriagerescue.com/quiz
Cheating Wife
Thursday, May 10, 2007
Save Your Marriage
An interesting article, How to Save My Marriage to a Cheating Spouse, by MR Bruno. so many people just let it go, but with some effort you can save your marriage, hope this article helps.
Steven
Cheating Wife
One of the most common questions facing marital partners today is the question of whether their spouse is cheating. Many women and men choose to remain in a state of denial, afraid to learn the truth and bear the pain.
I am here to tell you that there is good news even if you find out that your husband or wife is cheating on you. The good news is that if you have proof of a cheating spouse you then can make a decision of whether you want to save your marriage.
If you want to save your marriage, the quicker you have the facts, the quicker you can take action to resolve the issues that are at the root cause of the cheating by your spouse and repair the damage. If you choose to end the marriage you will have ample reason to make that decision, painful that it is.
With the thought in mind that your decision is to "save my marriage", we should take a look at the telltale signs of infidelity by a spouse.
Men and women alike send out signals of cheating in a marriage that marriage counselors see on a regular basis.
Here's a few signs- * Your spouse has a "sudden " change in sexual proclivities or interests. They want to experiment with new sexual activities.
* The cheating spouse withdraws emotionally and /or physically. Intimacy has gone out the window.
* The become combative and critical of you as to your appearance or needs.
* The cheating spouse becomes defensive about their whereabouts and activities.
* The cheating spouse comes home wearing a different outfit then they left home with.
* The cheating spouse may buy a new fragrance or cologne and wear it frequently.
* The cheating spouse may get a new hairstyle. * The cheating spouse may become more attentive to his or her appearance. He or she may join a gym or start dieting to wear the new outfits that suddenly appear in the bedroom closet.
* The cheating spouse may start working late, have to go on a business trip, or have other reasons to be away from the family more than normal.
* The cheating spouse may become upset if you are in ear shot of their phone conversation.
* The cheating spouse may not take your cell phone calls or calls to their office or work.
* The cheating spouse may have unusual charges for items on their credit card bill such as expensive restaurants, hotel or motel bills, or clothing or apparent gift item charges that you have not been the recipient of.
* A jewelry gift box or receipt may show up in the possession of a cheating spouse.
These are just a few of the myriad signs of a cheating spouse. Carefully assemble your information but don't explode. Remember, your decision is to save your marriage.
A marriage counselor may be just what you need to help through this difficult time. Another option is to research the causes and resolution of problem relationship when a spouse cheats.
Your friends, well meaning that they may be, are not trained experts in relationships and should not be the source of advice at this critical time in you life.
To save you marriage you need a calm and clear plan to repair the damage and bring back the love and passion into your relationship. It can be done.
There are many qualified marriage counselors in every community. Make an appointment and get the help you need to save your marriage today.
About the Author
When my marriage collapsed I made a vow to never let it happen again. If you want to save your marriage you need expert information. Get a free mini course and save your marriage today at http://www.savemymarriage.relationshipproblems-guru.com
Cheating Wife
Steven
Cheating Wife
One of the most common questions facing marital partners today is the question of whether their spouse is cheating. Many women and men choose to remain in a state of denial, afraid to learn the truth and bear the pain.
I am here to tell you that there is good news even if you find out that your husband or wife is cheating on you. The good news is that if you have proof of a cheating spouse you then can make a decision of whether you want to save your marriage.
If you want to save your marriage, the quicker you have the facts, the quicker you can take action to resolve the issues that are at the root cause of the cheating by your spouse and repair the damage. If you choose to end the marriage you will have ample reason to make that decision, painful that it is.
With the thought in mind that your decision is to "save my marriage", we should take a look at the telltale signs of infidelity by a spouse.
Men and women alike send out signals of cheating in a marriage that marriage counselors see on a regular basis.
Here's a few signs- * Your spouse has a "sudden " change in sexual proclivities or interests. They want to experiment with new sexual activities.
* The cheating spouse withdraws emotionally and /or physically. Intimacy has gone out the window.
* The become combative and critical of you as to your appearance or needs.
* The cheating spouse becomes defensive about their whereabouts and activities.
* The cheating spouse comes home wearing a different outfit then they left home with.
* The cheating spouse may buy a new fragrance or cologne and wear it frequently.
* The cheating spouse may get a new hairstyle. * The cheating spouse may become more attentive to his or her appearance. He or she may join a gym or start dieting to wear the new outfits that suddenly appear in the bedroom closet.
* The cheating spouse may start working late, have to go on a business trip, or have other reasons to be away from the family more than normal.
* The cheating spouse may become upset if you are in ear shot of their phone conversation.
* The cheating spouse may not take your cell phone calls or calls to their office or work.
* The cheating spouse may have unusual charges for items on their credit card bill such as expensive restaurants, hotel or motel bills, or clothing or apparent gift item charges that you have not been the recipient of.
* A jewelry gift box or receipt may show up in the possession of a cheating spouse.
These are just a few of the myriad signs of a cheating spouse. Carefully assemble your information but don't explode. Remember, your decision is to save your marriage.
A marriage counselor may be just what you need to help through this difficult time. Another option is to research the causes and resolution of problem relationship when a spouse cheats.
Your friends, well meaning that they may be, are not trained experts in relationships and should not be the source of advice at this critical time in you life.
To save you marriage you need a calm and clear plan to repair the damage and bring back the love and passion into your relationship. It can be done.
There are many qualified marriage counselors in every community. Make an appointment and get the help you need to save your marriage today.
About the Author
When my marriage collapsed I made a vow to never let it happen again. If you want to save your marriage you need expert information. Get a free mini course and save your marriage today at http://www.savemymarriage.relationshipproblems-guru.com
Cheating Wife
Friday, April 27, 2007
Cheating Wife
An interesting 'cheating wife' article below, I hope it helps!
Steven
cheating wife
main article
Guys, do you suspect your wife of cheating on you? One study reported that 53% of women admitted cheating on their husbands, so it's not just a paranoid fantasy. It can and does happen, but how do you know if it's happening to you? At the risk of being a traitor to the sisterhood, here are 9 signs that your wife may be cheating on you.
1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy. Is your wife is a pack rat who never throws anything out? If they're left over from before your vasectomy, relax, but, if she bought them last week...
2) She sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it. Of course, you'd have to be fairly sneaky to discover this. If she's also smart enough to delete her cookies and browsing history, you're probably out of luck. Ditto, if she only uses the account at work.
3) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later. If it's the day before Thanksgiving or the Super Bowl, give her a break. Otherwise, if she takes 5 hours to shop for groceries, she'd better be bringing home some good stuff.
4) She buys herself new underwear. Was underwear on sale? Did she buy you some new underwear too? If she hasn't worn her new underwear for you, she may be wearing it for someone else.
5) She sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to her office. Good luck discovering this, but she might get careless and call you on her "secret" cell phone one day.
6) The toilet bowl seat is up, and when you left home it was down. Were you expecting the plumber? If you weren't, some other man was in the house because ladies NEVER leave the toilet bowl seat up.
7) She's unconventionally spending money on new clothes. Women buy new clothes to make themselves feel better and to make themselves look better. Either way, there may be a problem.
8) She stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you. How many years did it take you to notice this? The more years, the more likely that she has found someone else to confide in and seek advice from.
9) She stops wearing her wedding ring. Being in a relationship proves that she's a real woman, and her wedding ring is free advertisement. Not wearing her wedding ring says one of two things: she's trying to indicate that she's available for a relationship, or she's trying to forget that she's already in one. Neither is good for your marriage.
Surveys of women report that only 20% of women have affairs for sex; most have affairs for emotional reasons. If your lady is straying, it's probably not because of what's happening in the bedroom. It's because of what's happening (or not happening) outside it. If want to save your marriage, it means that YOU are probably going to have to change. Are you ready for that?
about the author
Jennifer Lawless writes about developing health relationships at her blog Relationship Health. To find out the single biggest mistake you can make when you think your wife is having an affair, visit her website Astonishing Discoveries.
cheating wife
Steven
cheating wife
main article
Guys, do you suspect your wife of cheating on you? One study reported that 53% of women admitted cheating on their husbands, so it's not just a paranoid fantasy. It can and does happen, but how do you know if it's happening to you? At the risk of being a traitor to the sisterhood, here are 9 signs that your wife may be cheating on you.
1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy. Is your wife is a pack rat who never throws anything out? If they're left over from before your vasectomy, relax, but, if she bought them last week...
2) She sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it. Of course, you'd have to be fairly sneaky to discover this. If she's also smart enough to delete her cookies and browsing history, you're probably out of luck. Ditto, if she only uses the account at work.
3) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later. If it's the day before Thanksgiving or the Super Bowl, give her a break. Otherwise, if she takes 5 hours to shop for groceries, she'd better be bringing home some good stuff.
4) She buys herself new underwear. Was underwear on sale? Did she buy you some new underwear too? If she hasn't worn her new underwear for you, she may be wearing it for someone else.
5) She sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to her office. Good luck discovering this, but she might get careless and call you on her "secret" cell phone one day.
6) The toilet bowl seat is up, and when you left home it was down. Were you expecting the plumber? If you weren't, some other man was in the house because ladies NEVER leave the toilet bowl seat up.
7) She's unconventionally spending money on new clothes. Women buy new clothes to make themselves feel better and to make themselves look better. Either way, there may be a problem.
8) She stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you. How many years did it take you to notice this? The more years, the more likely that she has found someone else to confide in and seek advice from.
9) She stops wearing her wedding ring. Being in a relationship proves that she's a real woman, and her wedding ring is free advertisement. Not wearing her wedding ring says one of two things: she's trying to indicate that she's available for a relationship, or she's trying to forget that she's already in one. Neither is good for your marriage.
Surveys of women report that only 20% of women have affairs for sex; most have affairs for emotional reasons. If your lady is straying, it's probably not because of what's happening in the bedroom. It's because of what's happening (or not happening) outside it. If want to save your marriage, it means that YOU are probably going to have to change. Are you ready for that?
about the author
Jennifer Lawless writes about developing health relationships at her blog Relationship Health. To find out the single biggest mistake you can make when you think your wife is having an affair, visit her website Astonishing Discoveries.
cheating wife
Monday, April 09, 2007
Cheating Wife
An interesting article below about, the signs of a cheating wife, if your wife is cheating you need to know. If your wife is cheating on you, be sure before you accuse, just in case they're not! A cheating wife will always leave signs of cheating, you just need to investigate and be sure.
Steven
Cheating Wife
main article
9 Signs of a Cheating Wife by Jennifer Lawless
Guys, do you suspect your wife of cheating on you? One study reported that 53% of women admitted cheating on their husbands, so it's not just a paranoid fantasy. It can and does happen, but how do you know if it's happening to you? At the risk of being a traitor to the sisterhood, here are 9 signs that your wife may be cheating on you?
1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy. Is your wife is a pack rat who never throws anything out? If they're left over from before your vasectomy, relax, but, if she bought them last week...
2) She sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it. Of course, you'd have to be fairly sneaky to discover this. If she's also smart enough to delete her cookies and browsing history, you're probably out of luck. Ditto, if she only uses the account at work.
3) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later. If it's the day before Thanksgiving or the Super Bowl, give her a break. Otherwise, if she takes 5 hours to shop for groceries, she'd better be bringing home some good stuff.
4) She buys herself new underwear. Was underwear on sale? Did she buy you some new underwear too? If she hasn't worn her new underwear for you, she may be wearing it for someone else.
5) She sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to her office. Good luck discovering this, but she might get careless and call you on her "secret" cell phone one day.
6) The toilet bowl seat is up, and when you left home it was down. Were you expecting the plumber? If you weren't, some other man was in the house because ladies NEVER leave the toilet bowl seat up.
7) She's unconventionally spending money on new clothes. Women buy new clothes to make themselves feel better and to make themselves look better. Either way, there may be a problem.
8) She stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you. How many years did it take you to notice this? The more years, the more likely that she has found someone else to confide in and seek advice from.
9) She stops wearing her wedding ring. Being in a relationship proves that she's a real woman, and her wedding ring is free advertisement. Not wearing her wedding ring says one of two things: she's trying to indicate that she's available for a relationship, or she's trying to forget that she's already in one. Neither is good for your marriage.
Surveys of women report that only 20% of women have affairs for sex; most have affairs for emotional reasons. If your lady is straying, it's probably not because of what's happening in the bedroom. It's because of what's happening (or not happening) outside it. If want to save your marriage, it means that YOU are probably going to have to change. Are you ready for that?
about the author
Jennifer Lawless writes on various subjects, including 9 Signs of a Cheating Wife. To find out the single biggest mistake you can make when you think your wife is having an affair, visit her website Astonishing Discoveries.
signs of a cheating wife
Steven
Cheating Wife
main article
9 Signs of a Cheating Wife by Jennifer Lawless
Guys, do you suspect your wife of cheating on you? One study reported that 53% of women admitted cheating on their husbands, so it's not just a paranoid fantasy. It can and does happen, but how do you know if it's happening to you? At the risk of being a traitor to the sisterhood, here are 9 signs that your wife may be cheating on you?
1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy. Is your wife is a pack rat who never throws anything out? If they're left over from before your vasectomy, relax, but, if she bought them last week...
2) She sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it. Of course, you'd have to be fairly sneaky to discover this. If she's also smart enough to delete her cookies and browsing history, you're probably out of luck. Ditto, if she only uses the account at work.
3) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later. If it's the day before Thanksgiving or the Super Bowl, give her a break. Otherwise, if she takes 5 hours to shop for groceries, she'd better be bringing home some good stuff.
4) She buys herself new underwear. Was underwear on sale? Did she buy you some new underwear too? If she hasn't worn her new underwear for you, she may be wearing it for someone else.
5) She sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to her office. Good luck discovering this, but she might get careless and call you on her "secret" cell phone one day.
6) The toilet bowl seat is up, and when you left home it was down. Were you expecting the plumber? If you weren't, some other man was in the house because ladies NEVER leave the toilet bowl seat up.
7) She's unconventionally spending money on new clothes. Women buy new clothes to make themselves feel better and to make themselves look better. Either way, there may be a problem.
8) She stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you. How many years did it take you to notice this? The more years, the more likely that she has found someone else to confide in and seek advice from.
9) She stops wearing her wedding ring. Being in a relationship proves that she's a real woman, and her wedding ring is free advertisement. Not wearing her wedding ring says one of two things: she's trying to indicate that she's available for a relationship, or she's trying to forget that she's already in one. Neither is good for your marriage.
Surveys of women report that only 20% of women have affairs for sex; most have affairs for emotional reasons. If your lady is straying, it's probably not because of what's happening in the bedroom. It's because of what's happening (or not happening) outside it. If want to save your marriage, it means that YOU are probably going to have to change. Are you ready for that?
about the author
Jennifer Lawless writes on various subjects, including 9 Signs of a Cheating Wife. To find out the single biggest mistake you can make when you think your wife is having an affair, visit her website Astonishing Discoveries.
signs of a cheating wife
Saturday, April 07, 2007
Cheating Wife
Cheating Wife
In the article below there are some great cheating wife tips, the article also explains how you can save your marriage if your wife is cheating on you.
Steven
Cheating Wife
One of the most common questions facing marital partners today is the question of whether their spouse is cheating. Many women and men choose to remain in a state of denial, afraid to learn the truth and bear the pain.
I am here to tell you that there is good news even if you find out that your husband or wife is cheating on you. The good news is that if you have proof of a cheating spouse you then can make a decision of whether you want to save your marriage.
If you want to save your marriage, the quicker you have the facts, the quicker you can take action to resolve the issues that are at the root cause of the cheating by your spouse and repair the damage. If you choose to end the marriage you will have ample reason to make that decision, painful that it is.
With the thought in mind that your decision is to "save my marriage", we should take a look at the telltale signs of infidelity by a spouse.
Men and women alike send out signals of cheating in a marriage that marriage counselors see on a regular basis. Here's a few signs-
* Your spouse has a "sudden " change in sexual proclivities or interests. They want to experiment with new sexual activities.
* The cheating spouse withdraws emotionally and /or physically. Intimacy has gone out the window.
* The become combative and critical of you as to your appearance or needs.
* The cheating spouse becomes defensive about their whereabouts and activities.
* The cheating spouse comes home wearing a different outfit then they left home with
* The cheating spouse may buy a new fragrance or cologne and wear it frequently
* The cheating spouse may get a new hairstyle
* The cheating spouse may become more attentive to his or her appearance. He or she may join a gym or start dieting to wear the new outfits that suddenly appear in the bedroom closet.
* The cheating spouse may start working late, have to go on a business trip, or have other reasons to be away from the family more than normal.
* The cheating spouse may become upset if you are in ear shot of their phone conversation
* The cheating spouse may not take your cell phone calls or calls to their office or work
* The cheating spouse may have unusual charges for items on their credit card bill such as expensive restaurants, hotel or motel bills, or clothing or apparent gift item charges that you have not been the recipient of.
* A jewelry gift box or receipt may show up in the possession of a cheating spouse.
These are just a few of the myriad signs of a cheating spouse. Carefully assemble your information but don't explode. Remember, your decision is to save your marriage.
A marriage counselor may be just what you need to help through this difficult time. Another option is to research the causes and resolution of problem relationship when a spouse cheats.
Your friends, well meaning that they may be, are not trained experts in relationships and should not be the source of advice at this critical time in you life.
To save you marriage you need a calm and clear plan to repair the damage and bring back the love and passion into your relationship. It can be done.
There are many qualified marriage counselors in every community. Make an appointment and get the help you need to save your marriage today.
about the author mr Bruno
When my marriage collapsed I made a vow to never let it happen again. If you want to save your marriage you need expert information. Get a free mini course and save your marriage today at http://www.savemymarriage.relationshipproblems-guru.com
In the article below there are some great cheating wife tips, the article also explains how you can save your marriage if your wife is cheating on you.
Steven
Cheating Wife
One of the most common questions facing marital partners today is the question of whether their spouse is cheating. Many women and men choose to remain in a state of denial, afraid to learn the truth and bear the pain.
I am here to tell you that there is good news even if you find out that your husband or wife is cheating on you. The good news is that if you have proof of a cheating spouse you then can make a decision of whether you want to save your marriage.
If you want to save your marriage, the quicker you have the facts, the quicker you can take action to resolve the issues that are at the root cause of the cheating by your spouse and repair the damage. If you choose to end the marriage you will have ample reason to make that decision, painful that it is.
With the thought in mind that your decision is to "save my marriage", we should take a look at the telltale signs of infidelity by a spouse.
Men and women alike send out signals of cheating in a marriage that marriage counselors see on a regular basis. Here's a few signs-
* Your spouse has a "sudden " change in sexual proclivities or interests. They want to experiment with new sexual activities.
* The cheating spouse withdraws emotionally and /or physically. Intimacy has gone out the window.
* The become combative and critical of you as to your appearance or needs.
* The cheating spouse becomes defensive about their whereabouts and activities.
* The cheating spouse comes home wearing a different outfit then they left home with
* The cheating spouse may buy a new fragrance or cologne and wear it frequently
* The cheating spouse may get a new hairstyle
* The cheating spouse may become more attentive to his or her appearance. He or she may join a gym or start dieting to wear the new outfits that suddenly appear in the bedroom closet.
* The cheating spouse may start working late, have to go on a business trip, or have other reasons to be away from the family more than normal.
* The cheating spouse may become upset if you are in ear shot of their phone conversation
* The cheating spouse may not take your cell phone calls or calls to their office or work
* The cheating spouse may have unusual charges for items on their credit card bill such as expensive restaurants, hotel or motel bills, or clothing or apparent gift item charges that you have not been the recipient of.
* A jewelry gift box or receipt may show up in the possession of a cheating spouse.
These are just a few of the myriad signs of a cheating spouse. Carefully assemble your information but don't explode. Remember, your decision is to save your marriage.
A marriage counselor may be just what you need to help through this difficult time. Another option is to research the causes and resolution of problem relationship when a spouse cheats.
Your friends, well meaning that they may be, are not trained experts in relationships and should not be the source of advice at this critical time in you life.
To save you marriage you need a calm and clear plan to repair the damage and bring back the love and passion into your relationship. It can be done.
There are many qualified marriage counselors in every community. Make an appointment and get the help you need to save your marriage today.
about the author mr Bruno
When my marriage collapsed I made a vow to never let it happen again. If you want to save your marriage you need expert information. Get a free mini course and save your marriage today at http://www.savemymarriage.relationshipproblems-guru.com
Sunday, February 04, 2007
Sign Of A Cheating Wife. 5 Areas To Watch Carefully
If you suspect you have a cheating wife, do not make the mistake of accusing her before you're absolutely certain she's cheating on you. Below are some classic tell tale signs that you have a cheating wife, but beware, even if she displays all the below signs, your wife may still be faithful.
The cheating wife’s physical appearance will change, she knows it has to. A woman having an affair (or even thinking about having one) will want to make herself more attractive. She will begin to dress smarter, her appearance will alter in some way. Be alert for new clothes, new perfume and her personal hygiene. These are usually the most visible signs of infidelity. If she suddenly has a personal makeover there is a good chance she's trying to impress someone, that someone may not be you!
A cheating spouses conversation and mannerisms will change. Listen carefully to what your wife chooses or refuses to talk about. Usually her conversations would include the same places and people, after all we are creatures of habit. Suddenly she starts talking of new places and people using very different tones in her voice and mannerisms.
The cheating wife will definitely use work as an excuse. Obviously, one of the main excuses to meet with someone, is work. Here are a few of the most common work related excuses, ‘I have a meeting tonight, so I’ll be back late, don’t wait up’. ‘I have a weekend training seminar to go to, I don’t really want to go, but I guess I’ll have to’. So look for definite changes in her work habits, as the affair progresses the time away with work will increase.
A cheating wife will spend, spend, spend! So watch carefully, she will say the money is for business lunches, gifts for company sales reps, employees, etc. Remember, when a wife is cheating, she will come up with many weird and wonderful excuses. It doesn’t matter how careful the cheating wife is, the financial cost will eventually have an effect on the majority of families.
The cheating wife will relate to the family differently. The way your wife communicates with you will change, suddenly the little things that used to bother her no longer do. An example could be, kids making a noise when he comes in from work, used to annoy her, but suddenly she smiles and makes a pleasant comment about the kids. This is a sign that her mind is on something else, something that she finds very pleasant. She suddenly has more patience, used to get annoyed about the small things, suddenly she doesn’t seem bothered.
Steven
The cheating wife’s physical appearance will change, she knows it has to. A woman having an affair (or even thinking about having one) will want to make herself more attractive. She will begin to dress smarter, her appearance will alter in some way. Be alert for new clothes, new perfume and her personal hygiene. These are usually the most visible signs of infidelity. If she suddenly has a personal makeover there is a good chance she's trying to impress someone, that someone may not be you!
A cheating spouses conversation and mannerisms will change. Listen carefully to what your wife chooses or refuses to talk about. Usually her conversations would include the same places and people, after all we are creatures of habit. Suddenly she starts talking of new places and people using very different tones in her voice and mannerisms.
The cheating wife will definitely use work as an excuse. Obviously, one of the main excuses to meet with someone, is work. Here are a few of the most common work related excuses, ‘I have a meeting tonight, so I’ll be back late, don’t wait up’. ‘I have a weekend training seminar to go to, I don’t really want to go, but I guess I’ll have to’. So look for definite changes in her work habits, as the affair progresses the time away with work will increase.
A cheating wife will spend, spend, spend! So watch carefully, she will say the money is for business lunches, gifts for company sales reps, employees, etc. Remember, when a wife is cheating, she will come up with many weird and wonderful excuses. It doesn’t matter how careful the cheating wife is, the financial cost will eventually have an effect on the majority of families.
The cheating wife will relate to the family differently. The way your wife communicates with you will change, suddenly the little things that used to bother her no longer do. An example could be, kids making a noise when he comes in from work, used to annoy her, but suddenly she smiles and makes a pleasant comment about the kids. This is a sign that her mind is on something else, something that she finds very pleasant. She suddenly has more patience, used to get annoyed about the small things, suddenly she doesn’t seem bothered.
Steven
Thursday, January 25, 2007
Infidelity Investigation - Warning Signs of Wife Infidelity And How to Catch The Cheater
A long but very interesting article by Sunny Tan, who is an expert in infidelity. Is your wife cheating? Read this and find out.
Definition of Infidelity According to the dictionary, infidelity means unfaithfulness to a sexual partner, and in layman terms this simply means that your girlfriend / wife or your boyfriend/husband could be cheating on you for someone else. No marriage, no matter how rich, religious, political or powerful, is immune to the threat of unfaithfulness, so say experts who give advice on how to survive infidelity.
Relationship Infidelity Infidelity in a marriage or in relationship is a bitter pill to swallow. Not simply because we strive to make our relationships thrive and survive in an all-challenging world, but because nobody, including you, can live along successfully with this lie! Infidelity in relationship can happen to you!
Relationship infidelity is cruel and shows no mercy to the one left out in the cold. It doesn't really matter if you are married or attached, it is a symbol of the worst destruction to your life and soul which is yet to unleash to the unexpecting you. This cheating infidelity is a symbolic of having your deepest fears and doubts exposed.
Do you know that there was a poll conducted to the Americans during the President Clinton's "intern" scandal? These infidelity statistics obtained were somewhat shocking
22 percent of men and 14 percent of women admitted to having sexual relations or infidelity adultery outside their marriage sometime in the past.
About 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an affair at some point in some marriage, according to "Monogamy Myth", Therapist Peggy Vaugn. 5 percent of married men and 3 percent of married women reported having sex with someone other than their spouse in a sexual infidelity survey conducted on 1997.
17 percent of divorces in the United States are caused by marital infidelity.
Is your lover playing cheat on you at the time of reading this? If you were to confront your lovers at "point blank", it will definitely jeopardize your current relationship. No matter what sort of hardship you are facing now suspecting your lover of relationship infidelity, there are often the smarter ways on how you would determine your case to be true. Surely there must be some ways to put your mind at ease for once and for all if you suspect that your spouse is cheating you for another man.
How to catch a cheater Here are the smart ways to detect signs of wife infidelity. Remember, the future of your relationship could depend on your ability to spot the telltale signs in time.
Sudden good appearance: First impressions always count. Remember when the days you met each other, you would normally go all out to dress up, being sensitive to your attire/wardrobe, even your personal grooming to that you would look nice in front of each other? Well, the fact that these things do happen to each if not most of us, it is often the best telltale sign on whether your partner is trying to impress or attract someone.
Is your partner treating you differently? When your partner is involved with someone else, it is often than not your partner will start to treat you differently from how he/she used to. Even on the subconscious level, this could be detrimental to your current relationship. Hence, it is easy for you to pick up this alarming sign when the time comes.
A new mood of conversation? Let's say your wife used to talk about cooking and spend most of her time in front of her cookery and gadgets, then suddenly you notice a sudden swing of mood in her. She now talks about grooming, talks about cars, or even start to dabble with wine or alcohol which she never used to. Well, ask yourself, could there be someone else who might be influencing her? Could the stuff that she normally talks about, places that she normally goes relate to the person she's hiding from you?
More overtime? Let's face it. How many of us who are working for people would rather stay in the office till wee hours than slouching ourselves in front of the idiot box (TV)? Your partner would normally drives back home at close to 6 o'clock in the evening. Eventually at 7 o'clock, 8.30 pm, 10 or even not going back home? Hmmm..it is a well known understanding that your lover's working habits will undoubtly change as her affair unfolds. Be on the lookout for work-related tell tale signs.
No time! No time! No time! Just as infidelity cost your partner money, it may as well ended up causing your lovers time. Remember that we are all granted by God only 24 hours a day. So it's not surprising that your partner would try to steal the time away from you just to be with her lover.
Business traveling. Travelling for business is the most common excuses for the cheating lovers as well as being the best getaway from you. Even if your lover really on business traveling, it is often the best practice to afford a cheating lover a chance to literally sway away from you.
Telephone conversion behaviour More often than not, illicit affairs often take place through the phone. Many foolish lovers take the risk of calling their partners at home or having their partners call them at home. Much to my surprise, many husbands ended up discovering their partners' infidelity either directly or indirectly by the telephone.
Your dwindling sex life Let's face it. The moment your partner goes after her secret lover, do you think she might be interest in you? What more in having sex with you? God knows how attractive the secret lover to her. So it's crucial for you to be on alert for any type of changes or frequency of your sex life together.
Smell like an animal! Each person has his or her own unique smell or taste. At first, you might not notice it, but when the time comes, you would feel completely different smell or taste. Remember that every lovers out there would do anything to make their first impression better? It could be their bodily smell or cologne which may attract to each other which is the reason behind the change of smell. Friendly advice, be on close guard. This is a warning sign for you.
Invasion of your home: It's quite common for your partner to end up with her lover in your home. When this happens, pay close attention to all the items or belongings which were left behind. Scour and collect these crucial evidence in everywhere in your house that you could possible imagine.
Gifts but not from you? At times you would end up finding a gifts which were not from you. Look out for these telltale signs especially near Valentine's day or Christmas. If they are not from you, then who else?
Email usage What does it tell you that all of a sudden you see your partner having an interest in using the computer? What else does this indicate when she's using more emails than she is talking to you? Chances are this may as well indicate the involvement of her online or cyber affair. Don't take this lightly as most of the time these affairs can be detrimental to your marriage. Emotional attachment can be extremely strong, and could progress from cyberspace to physical reality.
Sudden spike of handphone bills. With the advent of technology advancement in telecommunications, it's no wonder that life has been easier for both you and your partner to communicate at any point of time. But beware, this could also be a great opportunity for your partner to stay in touch of her secret lover.
The physical evidence waiting to be found. Most of the time the physical evidence indication of your lover's secret life can be easily found in front of your eyes. When your partner is not available, check her handbags, her wastepaper basket, her filling cabinets, drawers, or any other sort of place you could think of. Keep your eyes open. With luck, you could find yourself a new sets of physical evidence of infidelity you can find.
How would your partner behave in front of others? Studies and reports have indicated that most men will likely have an affair with someone he already knows, either from the women he normally comes in contact with, or even business associates. Try to be observant, as at times your partner may behave strangely in front of these people.
About the Author
Discover how you are able to catch your cheating spouse by using common household items in his surviving infidelity newsletter at http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com.
Definition of Infidelity According to the dictionary, infidelity means unfaithfulness to a sexual partner, and in layman terms this simply means that your girlfriend / wife or your boyfriend/husband could be cheating on you for someone else. No marriage, no matter how rich, religious, political or powerful, is immune to the threat of unfaithfulness, so say experts who give advice on how to survive infidelity.
Relationship Infidelity Infidelity in a marriage or in relationship is a bitter pill to swallow. Not simply because we strive to make our relationships thrive and survive in an all-challenging world, but because nobody, including you, can live along successfully with this lie! Infidelity in relationship can happen to you!
Relationship infidelity is cruel and shows no mercy to the one left out in the cold. It doesn't really matter if you are married or attached, it is a symbol of the worst destruction to your life and soul which is yet to unleash to the unexpecting you. This cheating infidelity is a symbolic of having your deepest fears and doubts exposed.
Do you know that there was a poll conducted to the Americans during the President Clinton's "intern" scandal? These infidelity statistics obtained were somewhat shocking
22 percent of men and 14 percent of women admitted to having sexual relations or infidelity adultery outside their marriage sometime in the past.
About 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an affair at some point in some marriage, according to "Monogamy Myth", Therapist Peggy Vaugn. 5 percent of married men and 3 percent of married women reported having sex with someone other than their spouse in a sexual infidelity survey conducted on 1997.
17 percent of divorces in the United States are caused by marital infidelity.
Is your lover playing cheat on you at the time of reading this? If you were to confront your lovers at "point blank", it will definitely jeopardize your current relationship. No matter what sort of hardship you are facing now suspecting your lover of relationship infidelity, there are often the smarter ways on how you would determine your case to be true. Surely there must be some ways to put your mind at ease for once and for all if you suspect that your spouse is cheating you for another man.
How to catch a cheater Here are the smart ways to detect signs of wife infidelity. Remember, the future of your relationship could depend on your ability to spot the telltale signs in time.
Sudden good appearance: First impressions always count. Remember when the days you met each other, you would normally go all out to dress up, being sensitive to your attire/wardrobe, even your personal grooming to that you would look nice in front of each other? Well, the fact that these things do happen to each if not most of us, it is often the best telltale sign on whether your partner is trying to impress or attract someone.
Is your partner treating you differently? When your partner is involved with someone else, it is often than not your partner will start to treat you differently from how he/she used to. Even on the subconscious level, this could be detrimental to your current relationship. Hence, it is easy for you to pick up this alarming sign when the time comes.
A new mood of conversation? Let's say your wife used to talk about cooking and spend most of her time in front of her cookery and gadgets, then suddenly you notice a sudden swing of mood in her. She now talks about grooming, talks about cars, or even start to dabble with wine or alcohol which she never used to. Well, ask yourself, could there be someone else who might be influencing her? Could the stuff that she normally talks about, places that she normally goes relate to the person she's hiding from you?
More overtime? Let's face it. How many of us who are working for people would rather stay in the office till wee hours than slouching ourselves in front of the idiot box (TV)? Your partner would normally drives back home at close to 6 o'clock in the evening. Eventually at 7 o'clock, 8.30 pm, 10 or even not going back home? Hmmm..it is a well known understanding that your lover's working habits will undoubtly change as her affair unfolds. Be on the lookout for work-related tell tale signs.
No time! No time! No time! Just as infidelity cost your partner money, it may as well ended up causing your lovers time. Remember that we are all granted by God only 24 hours a day. So it's not surprising that your partner would try to steal the time away from you just to be with her lover.
Business traveling. Travelling for business is the most common excuses for the cheating lovers as well as being the best getaway from you. Even if your lover really on business traveling, it is often the best practice to afford a cheating lover a chance to literally sway away from you.
Telephone conversion behaviour More often than not, illicit affairs often take place through the phone. Many foolish lovers take the risk of calling their partners at home or having their partners call them at home. Much to my surprise, many husbands ended up discovering their partners' infidelity either directly or indirectly by the telephone.
Your dwindling sex life Let's face it. The moment your partner goes after her secret lover, do you think she might be interest in you? What more in having sex with you? God knows how attractive the secret lover to her. So it's crucial for you to be on alert for any type of changes or frequency of your sex life together.
Smell like an animal! Each person has his or her own unique smell or taste. At first, you might not notice it, but when the time comes, you would feel completely different smell or taste. Remember that every lovers out there would do anything to make their first impression better? It could be their bodily smell or cologne which may attract to each other which is the reason behind the change of smell. Friendly advice, be on close guard. This is a warning sign for you.
Invasion of your home: It's quite common for your partner to end up with her lover in your home. When this happens, pay close attention to all the items or belongings which were left behind. Scour and collect these crucial evidence in everywhere in your house that you could possible imagine.
Gifts but not from you? At times you would end up finding a gifts which were not from you. Look out for these telltale signs especially near Valentine's day or Christmas. If they are not from you, then who else?
Email usage What does it tell you that all of a sudden you see your partner having an interest in using the computer? What else does this indicate when she's using more emails than she is talking to you? Chances are this may as well indicate the involvement of her online or cyber affair. Don't take this lightly as most of the time these affairs can be detrimental to your marriage. Emotional attachment can be extremely strong, and could progress from cyberspace to physical reality.
Sudden spike of handphone bills. With the advent of technology advancement in telecommunications, it's no wonder that life has been easier for both you and your partner to communicate at any point of time. But beware, this could also be a great opportunity for your partner to stay in touch of her secret lover.
The physical evidence waiting to be found. Most of the time the physical evidence indication of your lover's secret life can be easily found in front of your eyes. When your partner is not available, check her handbags, her wastepaper basket, her filling cabinets, drawers, or any other sort of place you could think of. Keep your eyes open. With luck, you could find yourself a new sets of physical evidence of infidelity you can find.
How would your partner behave in front of others? Studies and reports have indicated that most men will likely have an affair with someone he already knows, either from the women he normally comes in contact with, or even business associates. Try to be observant, as at times your partner may behave strangely in front of these people.
About the Author
Discover how you are able to catch your cheating spouse by using common household items in his surviving infidelity newsletter at http://www.survivinginfidelity911.com.
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