Friday, April 27, 2007

Cheating Wife

An interesting 'cheating wife' article below, I hope it helps!
Steven
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Guys, do you suspect your wife of cheating on you? One study reported that 53% of women admitted cheating on their husbands, so it's not just a paranoid fantasy. It can and does happen, but how do you know if it's happening to you? At the risk of being a traitor to the sisterhood, here are 9 signs that your wife may be cheating on you.

1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy. Is your wife is a pack rat who never throws anything out? If they're left over from before your vasectomy, relax, but, if she bought them last week...

2) She sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it. Of course, you'd have to be fairly sneaky to discover this. If she's also smart enough to delete her cookies and browsing history, you're probably out of luck. Ditto, if she only uses the account at work.

3) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later. If it's the day before Thanksgiving or the Super Bowl, give her a break. Otherwise, if she takes 5 hours to shop for groceries, she'd better be bringing home some good stuff.

4) She buys herself new underwear. Was underwear on sale? Did she buy you some new underwear too? If she hasn't worn her new underwear for you, she may be wearing it for someone else.

5) She sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to her office. Good luck discovering this, but she might get careless and call you on her "secret" cell phone one day.

6) The toilet bowl seat is up, and when you left home it was down. Were you expecting the plumber? If you weren't, some other man was in the house because ladies NEVER leave the toilet bowl seat up.

7) She's unconventionally spending money on new clothes. Women buy new clothes to make themselves feel better and to make themselves look better. Either way, there may be a problem.

8) She stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you. How many years did it take you to notice this? The more years, the more likely that she has found someone else to confide in and seek advice from.

9) She stops wearing her wedding ring. Being in a relationship proves that she's a real woman, and her wedding ring is free advertisement. Not wearing her wedding ring says one of two things: she's trying to indicate that she's available for a relationship, or she's trying to forget that she's already in one. Neither is good for your marriage.

Surveys of women report that only 20% of women have affairs for sex; most have affairs for emotional reasons. If your lady is straying, it's probably not because of what's happening in the bedroom. It's because of what's happening (or not happening) outside it. If want to save your marriage, it means that YOU are probably going to have to change. Are you ready for that?

about the author
Jennifer Lawless writes about developing health relationships at her blog Relationship Health. To find out the single biggest mistake you can make when you think your wife is having an affair, visit her website Astonishing Discoveries.

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Monday, April 09, 2007

Cheating Wife

An interesting article below about, the signs of a cheating wife, if your wife is cheating you need to know. If your wife is cheating on you, be sure before you accuse, just in case they're not! A cheating wife will always leave signs of cheating, you just need to investigate and be sure.
Steven
Cheating Wife

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9 Signs of a Cheating Wife by Jennifer Lawless

Guys, do you suspect your wife of cheating on you? One study reported that 53% of women admitted cheating on their husbands, so it's not just a paranoid fantasy. It can and does happen, but how do you know if it's happening to you? At the risk of being a traitor to the sisterhood, here are 9 signs that your wife may be cheating on you?

1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy. Is your wife is a pack rat who never throws anything out? If they're left over from before your vasectomy, relax, but, if she bought them last week...

2) She sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it. Of course, you'd have to be fairly sneaky to discover this. If she's also smart enough to delete her cookies and browsing history, you're probably out of luck. Ditto, if she only uses the account at work.

3) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later. If it's the day before Thanksgiving or the Super Bowl, give her a break. Otherwise, if she takes 5 hours to shop for groceries, she'd better be bringing home some good stuff.

4) She buys herself new underwear. Was underwear on sale? Did she buy you some new underwear too? If she hasn't worn her new underwear for you, she may be wearing it for someone else.

5) She sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to her office. Good luck discovering this, but she might get careless and call you on her "secret" cell phone one day.

6) The toilet bowl seat is up, and when you left home it was down. Were you expecting the plumber? If you weren't, some other man was in the house because ladies NEVER leave the toilet bowl seat up.

7) She's unconventionally spending money on new clothes. Women buy new clothes to make themselves feel better and to make themselves look better. Either way, there may be a problem.

8) She stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you. How many years did it take you to notice this? The more years, the more likely that she has found someone else to confide in and seek advice from.

9) She stops wearing her wedding ring. Being in a relationship proves that she's a real woman, and her wedding ring is free advertisement. Not wearing her wedding ring says one of two things: she's trying to indicate that she's available for a relationship, or she's trying to forget that she's already in one. Neither is good for your marriage.

Surveys of women report that only 20% of women have affairs for sex; most have affairs for emotional reasons. If your lady is straying, it's probably not because of what's happening in the bedroom. It's because of what's happening (or not happening) outside it. If want to save your marriage, it means that YOU are probably going to have to change. Are you ready for that?

about the author
Jennifer Lawless writes on various subjects, including 9 Signs of a Cheating Wife. To find out the single biggest mistake you can make when you think your wife is having an affair, visit her website Astonishing Discoveries.


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Saturday, April 07, 2007

Cheating Wife

Cheating Wife

In the article below there are some great cheating wife tips, the article also explains how you can save your marriage if your wife is cheating on you.
Steven
Cheating Wife

One of the most common questions facing marital partners today is the question of whether their spouse is cheating. Many women and men choose to remain in a state of denial, afraid to learn the truth and bear the pain.

I am here to tell you that there is good news even if you find out that your husband or wife is cheating on you. The good news is that if you have proof of a cheating spouse you then can make a decision of whether you want to save your marriage.

If you want to save your marriage, the quicker you have the facts, the quicker you can take action to resolve the issues that are at the root cause of the cheating by your spouse and repair the damage. If you choose to end the marriage you will have ample reason to make that decision, painful that it is.

With the thought in mind that your decision is to "save my marriage", we should take a look at the telltale signs of infidelity by a spouse.

Men and women alike send out signals of cheating in a marriage that marriage counselors see on a regular basis. Here's a few signs-

* Your spouse has a "sudden " change in sexual proclivities or interests. They want to experiment with new sexual activities.

* The cheating spouse withdraws emotionally and /or physically. Intimacy has gone out the window.

* The become combative and critical of you as to your appearance or needs.

* The cheating spouse becomes defensive about their whereabouts and activities.

* The cheating spouse comes home wearing a different outfit then they left home with

* The cheating spouse may buy a new fragrance or cologne and wear it frequently

* The cheating spouse may get a new hairstyle

* The cheating spouse may become more attentive to his or her appearance. He or she may join a gym or start dieting to wear the new outfits that suddenly appear in the bedroom closet.

* The cheating spouse may start working late, have to go on a business trip, or have other reasons to be away from the family more than normal.

* The cheating spouse may become upset if you are in ear shot of their phone conversation

* The cheating spouse may not take your cell phone calls or calls to their office or work

* The cheating spouse may have unusual charges for items on their credit card bill such as expensive restaurants, hotel or motel bills, or clothing or apparent gift item charges that you have not been the recipient of.

* A jewelry gift box or receipt may show up in the possession of a cheating spouse.

These are just a few of the myriad signs of a cheating spouse. Carefully assemble your information but don't explode. Remember, your decision is to save your marriage.

A marriage counselor may be just what you need to help through this difficult time. Another option is to research the causes and resolution of problem relationship when a spouse cheats.

Your friends, well meaning that they may be, are not trained experts in relationships and should not be the source of advice at this critical time in you life.

To save you marriage you need a calm and clear plan to repair the damage and bring back the love and passion into your relationship. It can be done.

There are many qualified marriage counselors in every community. Make an appointment and get the help you need to save your marriage today.

about the author mr Bruno
When my marriage collapsed I made a vow to never let it happen again. If you want to save your marriage you need expert information. Get a free mini course and save your marriage today at http://www.savemymarriage.relationshipproblems-guru.com