Monday, May 14, 2007

Signs Of A Cheating Wife

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They always leave several signs, here's a really good article, 58 Clues Your Partner is Having an Affair by Sydney Guishard

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Here are some signs that can tip you off that you have a cheating husband or cheating wife. Feel free to forward this list to anyone who might be interested. I just ask that you don't change anything and include the author box.

Signs of a Cheating Spouse:

1) He just got a new cell phone but surprisingly the bill gets sent to his office address.

2) Your partner suddenly starts taking more business trips that last longer.

3) He no longer wants the baby seat in his car.

4) You can't get your spouse to talk to you anymore.

5) Sex life? You hardly have sex any more.

6) Wow! Your sex life has suddenly taken off.

7) Your partner is paying way too much attention to you.

8) Your partner is ignoring you.

9) Your spouse is neglecting everyday chores and tasks.

10) He starts paying a lot of attention to a clean car. Everything is spotless inside and out.

11) You find you have to readjust the passenger seat every time you get in the car.

12) She seems to be working late at the office more than usual.

13) He has condoms even though you're on the birth control pill. She takes the pill even though you've had a vasectomy.

14) She just got a new male friend but she says not to worry because he's gay or recently engaged.

15) Your partner is always running late.

16) When your partner comes home his hair is wet.

17) She always seems to be forgetting to wear her wedding ring.

18) He has suddenly taken up jogging when he normally only runs to the fridge.

19) You start smelling alcohol on her breath even though she came "straight home from work".

20) Your Spidey senses are tingling. You just get the feeling that something is going on with your spouse. Your intuition or gut feeling is talking to you.

21) He starts to buy new clothes and starts looking REALLY, REALLY good.

22) She gets a new email address and doesn't tell you about it.

23) She races you to the mail box to get the phone bill first.

24) You notice charges on your credit card statement that make no sense.

25) Your spouse seems more secretive. They are definitely hiding something.

26) You can't get your partner to fight anymore even when you try really hard to make him or her mad.

27) Your partner doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.

28) He/She goes to another room to make private phone calls.

29) Your partner's friends seem to be uncomfortable around you -- like they know something.

30) You start getting an unusual number of telephone hang-ups.

31) Your partner encourages you to take a vacation alone.

32) Your spouse starts getting defensive when you ask if something is going on.

33) Your partner starts wearing new cologne or perfume.

34) You notice lipstick on his collar, or worse - his underwear!

35) She deletes the phone log on her cell phone at least 5 times a day.

36) He turns off his cell phone when you are together like he's afraid to take a call beside you.

37) She becomes paranoid and uncomfortable even when you ask the most innocent questions.

38) Your partner spends many hours on the computer or phone after you've gone to bed.

39) He makes a brand new CD to play in the car.

40) Your partner has set up special security on the computer that you can't access.

41) The internet browser history is deleted whenever you go to use a shared computer.

42) Your partner is spending less and less time with you.

43) She never seems to be at her desk when you call.

44) Use your nose. Your partner smells differently when they leave the house in the morning compared to when they come home in the evening. A different cologne or soap smell.

45) Your spouse suddenly becomes interested in new, different types of music.

46) Your partner starts talking differently, using different phrases and sayings and knowing more on a new subject.

47) Your spouse has unusual scratches or bruises on their neck, back or arms and you know the cat's not responsible.

48) Your partner has his/her cell phone locked down better than Fort Knox.

49) He never returns your calls when he's out.

50) She has more of a "glow" about her.

51) Your spouse's underwear never makes it to the laundry or it appears to be rinsed before getting to the laundry hamper.

52) He heads to the shower or brushes his teeth as soon as he walks in the door.

53) He starts buying new underwear.

54) She buys new underwear and always wears matching bras and panties.

55) He starts doing his own laundry.

56) Your spouse starts receiving small unexplained gifts.

57) She tells you she's trying a Brazilian wax.

58) He learns how to remove hair. He now clips his nose hairs, trims his pubic hair and tweezes the hair growing out of his ears.
About the Author

Sydney Guishard is a Relationship coach and has helped hundreds of couples improve their marriage. Is your marriage headed to divorce? Take the Free Relationship Assessment http://www.themarriagerescue.com/quiz

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Thursday, May 10, 2007

Save Your Marriage

An interesting article, How to Save My Marriage to a Cheating Spouse, by MR Bruno. so many people just let it go, but with some effort you can save your marriage, hope this article helps.
Steven
Cheating Wife

One of the most common questions facing marital partners today is the question of whether their spouse is cheating. Many women and men choose to remain in a state of denial, afraid to learn the truth and bear the pain.

I am here to tell you that there is good news even if you find out that your husband or wife is cheating on you. The good news is that if you have proof of a cheating spouse you then can make a decision of whether you want to save your marriage.

If you want to save your marriage, the quicker you have the facts, the quicker you can take action to resolve the issues that are at the root cause of the cheating by your spouse and repair the damage. If you choose to end the marriage you will have ample reason to make that decision, painful that it is.

With the thought in mind that your decision is to "save my marriage", we should take a look at the telltale signs of infidelity by a spouse.

Men and women alike send out signals of cheating in a marriage that marriage counselors see on a regular basis.

Here's a few signs- * Your spouse has a "sudden " change in sexual proclivities or interests. They want to experiment with new sexual activities.

* The cheating spouse withdraws emotionally and /or physically. Intimacy has gone out the window.

* The become combative and critical of you as to your appearance or needs.

* The cheating spouse becomes defensive about their whereabouts and activities.

* The cheating spouse comes home wearing a different outfit then they left home with.

* The cheating spouse may buy a new fragrance or cologne and wear it frequently.

* The cheating spouse may get a new hairstyle. * The cheating spouse may become more attentive to his or her appearance. He or she may join a gym or start dieting to wear the new outfits that suddenly appear in the bedroom closet.

* The cheating spouse may start working late, have to go on a business trip, or have other reasons to be away from the family more than normal.

* The cheating spouse may become upset if you are in ear shot of their phone conversation.

* The cheating spouse may not take your cell phone calls or calls to their office or work.

* The cheating spouse may have unusual charges for items on their credit card bill such as expensive restaurants, hotel or motel bills, or clothing or apparent gift item charges that you have not been the recipient of.

* A jewelry gift box or receipt may show up in the possession of a cheating spouse.

These are just a few of the myriad signs of a cheating spouse. Carefully assemble your information but don't explode. Remember, your decision is to save your marriage.

A marriage counselor may be just what you need to help through this difficult time. Another option is to research the causes and resolution of problem relationship when a spouse cheats.

Your friends, well meaning that they may be, are not trained experts in relationships and should not be the source of advice at this critical time in you life.

To save you marriage you need a calm and clear plan to repair the damage and bring back the love and passion into your relationship. It can be done.

There are many qualified marriage counselors in every community. Make an appointment and get the help you need to save your marriage today.


About the Author

When my marriage collapsed I made a vow to never let it happen again. If you want to save your marriage you need expert information. Get a free mini course and save your marriage today at http://www.savemymarriage.relationshipproblems-guru.com



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